Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Manatee Festival...

At the end of January, we went to the Manatee Festival at Blue Springs. There were almost 200 manatees in the park that day. They come into the Spring when it gets cold out to escape the cold water of the river.

Devin could not see the manatees because you really had to know what you were looking for in the water. They were not real close.

He had a good time playing on the playground. After we saw the manatees we let Devin play for a while and then ate. They also had a cool dog show. There is a group of Frisbee catching dogs from Jacksonville that performed. They were great.














Monday, February 23, 2009

Please pray for the children in Guatemala!!!

I just found this article and it breaks my heart for these poor children. Please pray for them and that Guatemala will soon get an adoption system up and runnig so these children can be adopted and find a loving home.


February 4, 2009
Joint Council Position Paper
Guatemala: One Year Later

On January 1, 2008, under significant scrutiny and amidst allegations of corruption, child trafficking and unethical practices, Guatemala implemented the Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption. Guatemala’s participation in the Convention was applauded by the many governments and NGOs who had insisted on changes to the practices in Guatemala and vigorously supported Guatemala’s participation in the Hague Convention. The implementation was seen by many as the answer to corruption and unethical practices.

Now, 12 months since its implementation, has the Convention truly been the answer? It appears that one year later there are more questions than answers, more needs than funds, and for the children in need of a family, more despair than hope.

Since the implementation of the Convention, Guatemala has in fact seen an end to allegations of ongoing corruption in inter-country adoption. Children now have strong protections against child trafficking. Birth families are free from the unethical practices of unscrupulous practitioners. And a Central Authority governing all adoptions has been established in Guatemala.

Over this past year, in addition to these protections, has the Convention’s implementation in Guatemala also served children? Has it enabled children living in institutions to find a family? Unfortunately the manner in which Guatemala implemented the Convention has not resulted in an ethical intercountry adoption system; it has resulted in no intercountry adoption system. The implementation of the Convention has indeed succeeded in adding protections. But it has also failed in its role to serve children. Despite an estimated 6,000 institutionalized children and few domestic adoptions, not one child has found a permanent family through the Convention.

When the Convention was implemented the law stated that the estimated 3,000 adoptions that had been initiated would be completed. One year and countless investigations by the PGN, MP, CNA and Guatemalan courts later, over 1,000 children have yet to have their adoptions completed. Joint Council supports efforts to ensure that each and every adoption is done in the best interest of the children, and recognizes that investigations are a part of that protection. But the cost should not be born by innocent children. Joint Council calls on the Guatemalan government to swiftly bring each pending adoption case to a final resolution and thereby end the deprivations of institutionalization.

Protecting children and families from harm is one of the primary roles of the Guatemalan government and their efforts must be recognized and supported. However, much like the scrutiny and attention by the international community exposed the corruption of the prior system, this same community must now refocus their attention to bring to light Guatemala’s ineffective implementation of the Convention and its subsequent impact on institutionalized children and Guatemalan families.

As recently published by Nuestro Diario, a leading Guatemalan newspaper, children are being abandoned to the streets at an alarming rate. With few government institutions to provide care and the closure of many private institutions, some birthmothers are simply leaving their newly born children in trash dumps. Nuestro Diario reports that in Guatemala City alone, 91 children were found abandoned with 70 being new born infants. Twenty abandoned children in Guatemala City were found after they had already perished. What is being done to build a social service system which not only protects children from corruption but also from a tragic death?

The lack of services to children as a result of the poor implementation of the Convention has yet to be addressed by those who supported its premature implementation. With prior knowledge that Guatemala lacked the capacity to properly implement the Convention, why were alternative reforms not considered? Who will assist the Guatemalans in replacing what was the only effective means of finding families for children? Who will help preserve families? Who is building an effective and safe domestic adoption program? Again, one year later there are more questions than answers.

The reform of the previous adoption system and the implementation of the Convention required the collective efforts of many governments and NGOs, including the U.S. and European governments. Building an effective child protection system in Guatemala will necessitate another, similar effort. Given the many challenges the Guatemalan government and its children are facing, no one entity can accomplish this task alone. Joint Council calls on the U.S. and European governments along with UNICEF, the NGO community, and The Hague Permanent Bureau to provide the necessary technical and financial assistance needed to appropriately serve the children of Guatemala. After 12 months and little progress it is apparent that only a collaborative effort can create the full range of desired services.

The formation of a spectrum of services including Family Preservation, Kinship Care, Domestic Adoption and Intercountry Adoption is desperately needed to ensure that children retain their right to a family and are protected from the detrimental effects of institutionalization, or even an unnecessary death. Joint Council calls on all stakeholders who previously asked for reforms to move with speed in order to provide these much needed services.

Some efforts have already begun. UNICEF and the governments of Chile and Brazil have provided limited technical assistance, and USAID is planning two pilot programs focused on family services. These efforts represent a start to services but are clearly not enough. In the past 12 months less than 60 domestic adoptions have been completed. Zero intercountry adoptions have been initiated. And significant family preservation is only in the development stage. When a child protection system results in more children being abandoned and less children finding families, is it not obvious that more needs to be done?

It has been one year since the implementation of the Convention; the children of Guatemala await our answer.

Sunday, February 15, 2009

One year ago today.........

It was a year ago today that we first met Devin and held him in our arms. Tonight Philip and I watched video and looked at all the pictures of our trip when we first met Devin. I can remember going down the elevator and seeing Devin in the lobby with his foster mother. Both of us had butterfly’s in our stomachs and were overjoyed with happiness. We both can not believe that a year has already passed. Devin has transformed from a little baby that was totally dependent on us to a very sassy, somewhat independent toddler.

Here are a few photos of the day that changed our lives forever…..




Monday, February 9, 2009

18 months....

Our baby is 18 months old today..... My how time flies.

Devin is growing like a weed. He is getting taller and heavier, of course.

He is still not talking but is starting to babble a little more. In December we took him to a speech therapist and they seem to think he is a little behind because of the language difference. For the first 9 months of his life he only heard Spanish. They did recommend therapy and we went twice. However, my insurance changed in January and that therapist is not a provider with my new insurance company. We have decided to just give it some time and see how he progresses. The speech therapist did give us some excercises to do with Devin at home. So we are just continuing with those excercises and we will see how it goes. He currently babbles baba and dada.

Devin has all his teeth except his 2 year molars. So, he is done teething for a while.

We are just starting to look into daycare. My niece is still watching him at our house but will hopefully find a job soon. We all know it is not the best time to be looking for a job. Finding a daycare that meets all of our needs has been a little difficult but we are still looking. It will be good for Devin to get into a daycare so he can socialize with other kids.

Devin is definetly starting to test our parenting abilities. He has started to throw fits if you don't give him what he wants. He will try to hit or bite you if you tell him no. Fun stuff... He is still very much a mommy's boy. He always wants me to hold him. He will stand at my legs whinning until I pick him up. I try not to give in but that doesn't always work. Even though he is a mama's boy his dad makes sure to point out to me that he says dada and that he will only give him a kiss. For some reason, Devin will give his daddy a kiss but no one else. He will give me one every once and a while.

We are a week away from a very important one year anniversary. Watch for our next post on the 15th.


Sunday, February 1, 2009

Superbowl Sunday....Go Steelers!!!!

This is Devin’s first Superbowl!! I was surprised that he actually was watching it. We are at home watching the game. We didn’t have any big plans. Of course, I am pulling for the Steelers. As you will notice in the pictures Devin is a Bears Fan. He has on his Bears (Devin Hester) jersey. I guess Pittsburgh will be his second team. We will let him make that decision when he gets older. He will probably be a Tampa fan since that is the closest team to us. That is ok, too.

Here are some photos from today….


On my slide playing with Tyrone
Down the slide I go

This is my game face

Started out the day by walking the puppies

It was 45 degrees so I had to get bundled up


Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Back from a blog hiatis

I know it has been a while since my last update. Christmas came and went and it is a new year.
We had a great Christmas. We had our family over for Christmas. Devin was not really into opening his gifts. He is still a little young. I don’t think he opened one present. We were more excited than he was. Oh well, I am sure next year he will have a blast opening his gifts. He got some great gifts. Santa brought him a battery powered kids 4 wheeler, a little tikes kitchen, a radio flyer wagon and the list goes on and on.

Unfortunately a few days before Christmas my niece, Michelle was hospitalized for blood clots in her lungs. She is doing fine now but she had to spend the Christmas in the hospital. My sister was not planning on spending Christmas in Florida but she flew in as soon as she found out Michelle was in the hospital. She stayed until the beginning of January. So, Devin got to spend some time with his Aunt Kim.

He spent his first night without us. Devin went over to his Nanny’s house and spent two nights. It was very hard to leave him but we knew he was having a good time with Nanny and Aunt Kim.

Santa left me lots of presents

Love my wagon
Trying to drink some O.J.

Wow, what a long day...
Playing with my little buddy
Gracie & me in my new ball pit
Look at that long hair

Like my new haircut?

Giving Bailey a kiss...




Monday, December 8, 2008

Am I crazy or what?

On October 22nd I got a call at work from my husband and he told me to write down a phone number and so I did. He then proceeded to tell me there was a sign on the side of the road for Chocolate lab puppies and that I should call them. So, I called the breeder and she had 4 puppies left. One was a little girl.

I went to look at them that afternoon and came home with a puppy. Talk about a spur of the moment decision? Philip can’t give me any grief over this one since he is the one that called me and encouraged me to call. Her name is Gracie. She is 15 weeks old and weighs about 25 pounds.

It is a little hectic around the Buster house. We went from having one dog to 2 dogs and a child. The quiet days are over. The first few weeks I really doubted the decision to get Gracie. However, we are all getting used to it in now. She gets easier as time goes on.

Bailey and Devin are adjusting well to having a little puppy in the house. Devin & Gracie will play with each other. They chase each other around the house. Gracie likes to jump on Devin which has been a little problem. We were all playing outside a few weeks ago and Gracie decided she wanted to play with Devin and tackle him while he was running across the driveway. Devin ended up face first into the pavement. He cut his forehead pretty bad. The good news is he didn’t need stitches or anything. At first, Bailey would just tolerates Gracie. Now, Bailey will play with Gracie. It helps keeps Bailey active. Those of you who know us well know that Bailey is not the most active dog.

Here are some photos. Enjoy.


Gracie's first bath


My first day home